The big news is that I'm leaving Dallas this upcoming Monday. Things here haven't gone well for a long time yet I've stubbornly hung in there, figuring things would get better. He has said he felt the same way, but we never sat down and had a reasonable conversation about it. There is always blame, but no one is at fault in the end. It just didn't work.
Thanks for hanging in there with me through the turbulence. I appreciate every one of you.
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oddharmonic- Melissa, starry-eyed soy-lovin' Expatriated Zulu
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*Hugs*
I hope that you are alright.
I tried to ping you in gchat. Cell phone number is in Facebook.
Want to see you to make fabric arrangements but I care about you so let me know if there is anything I can do to help you pack or anything I can say to make you feel better, and I hope that wherever you are going to makes you a lot happier .
And if it works out in the end either way, I hope things get better for you.
I saw your chat when I checked my mail this morning.
There isn't much to do to pack except taping up boxes, which we have more than enough of to pack up the entire apartment if I wanted to do that. I plan on putting together a box of kid-friendly cottons and flannels along with the Robeez booties for you. If I don't get to you by this weekend, I can stop by on Monday.
I feel sad thinking that I'm giving up and leaving after I've hung in there for so long, but I have to stop enabling Kevin's issues and give him the space he needs to get his life together. I had two sessions with a therapist while I was on vacation and it really helped me get back on track; I found one I'd like to see after I get to Colorado and they offer a free initial consultation so I'm feeling good about meeting them.
I'm really looking forward to returning to Colorado.
1) North Carolina is, in fact, one of the rings of hell.
2) It's boring around here.
3) I suspect you need time away from brain injured people.
4) I also suspect you'd prefer being with family at this time.
If, however, you'd really like to come, fire me a message and I'll break it to the man-child that we need to clear out the guest room of debris.
If there is anything I can do to help?
where will you be? If/when you're in Denver, I insist that we spend some time in person. I'm sure Art would be up for it, as well.
Take care!
I'll be moving back in with my parents in Evergreen, so I hope to see you, Art, and a lot of my Colorado friends once I'm back.